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Getting out of the small mind – Rajshree Didi – 10-11 March 2014

Rajshree Didi ( file pic )

Rajshree Didi ( file pic )

Some excerpts of what Rajshree Didi spoke on March 10,2014

1. Like a GPS, it shows u the path.It makes u the path clear.Though there is still traffic jams & all.

2. Likewise when u r clear with ur purpose with why u are doing. When there is clarity,U move on, even though problems exists & things have not changed.

3. Many times you know its wrong yet u do it? How to stop & avert this tendency?

4. You know u like what the small mind does. Because many times your logic works, reasoning wins!

5. & with that attitude u keep moving & at times get lost in that ambition to win your small mind.

6. That is vasana, that binds you back with misery.

7. To overcome Vasana, one out of ten times, you say a no to it. Start with this.

8. You know observe the wall. If there is a crack how will the water flow?

9. It flows thru the cracks & soon there is a continuous flow & water gets directed to it.

10. Same is with the mind. Vasanas are those cracks. If you let them be, it widens & concentrates!

11. You have to fill the crack with cement.& stop the water flow at some point

12.You have to say no to those vasanas that bind you to misery.

13. Through awareness & understanding you can overcome the vasana with Purushartha – SelfEffort!

14. So KarmaYog & BhaktiYog both are there. You have to do & you have to relax

15. You have to sing & you have to surrender.

16. You have to relax & stop running around in the mind!

17. Trust in the innocence ( bhola bhaav) of the present moment..
Bholenath..thats Shiva..

18. If the creator created all this without any purpose…how will we ..the creation have any purpose!!!!!..
its just his daydream!

19. You want to know the how & the why. You just relax & Be. Be in this moment & Move with the confidence that everything is alright 🙂

20. Die every moment – that small mind that keeps hankering to misery & bondage ,
to let Life spring up & align itself with a greater cause. To not get stuck up again in misery 🙂


SOME excerpts from meet with Rajshree Didi , March 11,2014

1. Whenever you meet Guruji,  your mind should be stable & clear without any turbulence. It should not be like he is coming & making you calm. You should be ready to learn or experience his presence.

2 . Have at least one “Guru brother, Guru friend,companion” who will be there to keep you on path.

3. Come out of & drop all patterns to be free.

4. Having anything is your choice.  Your friends, positions,food.
You choose you reap.

5 . Behind everything there is intelligence working,  there is even mismanagement.

6. It’s that intelligence which is carring us n everything . Like wood log in river flow.

Once again remember…
Our consciousness is like water & body is like log..
Its about merging with the big consciousness & getting out of our small minds!

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Rajshree Didi (file pic )

Rajshree Didi (file pic )





Karma, Mahabharat and My duty ~ Sri Sri answers..

Sri Sri Ravishankar ji

Sri Sri Ravishankar ji

Q: Guruji, I have been told that a human soul can often take one to two million years to find liberation. Is it true that by doing Kriya and meditation every day, this liberation can be obtained even in one lifetime?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: Everything works with some strange karma. You must lift your eyes and look into this realm. There is a beautiful couplet that says, ‘This world has all the wealth, all that is needed, but one who has no karma, cannot get it.’ So, whether you get something or you don’t, it all works with some strange karma. Recognition, money, power, relationship, health; everything depends on some law in creation. When good times come, your worst enemy starts helping you, and when bad times come, even your best friend behaves like an enemy. All these things happen due to some very strange karma.

An intelligent person doesn’t get caught up in all this. He still keeps putting in his effort, and keeps moving on. You do whatever is needed to put in an effort, and then you leave it. Do you know Lord Krishna went three times to stop the Mahabharata (narrative of the Kurukshetra War) war?

When someone asked Lord Krishna, ‘If you knew that the war was going to happen anyway, why did you go three times for peace negotiations? All three times your peace negotiations failed, then why did you go?’ That is a very valid question.

Lord Krishna said, ‘If I had not gone, then the question would have come that you could have done peace negotiation, why didn’t you do it?’ You have your duty towards your karma, whatever you need to do, you do it! Suppose the peace negotiation would have succeeded, then the whole Mahabharata would have finished, and the Gita would never have come! The immortal song of the Divine (Bhagavad Gita) would never have come into existence!

So, very well knowing that the Gita had to come, and the war had to happen, still Lord Krishna went for peace negotiations. This is because it is in our dharma, our nature. We should keep putting in our efforts and not get attached to the consequences or the results. This is very subtle because the mind gets sucked into maya ‘illusion’ in some form or the other.

The mind needs to be hammered into knowledge. It can easily slip out of these four pillars of knowledge, Viveka(discrimination), Vairagya (detachment), self-control, and honoring what you have (not grieving about what is not). And then, wanting liberation! So keep on hammering the knowledge back, again and again!

Suddenly, you will find it is all there, anyway. Now, when you slip, then also remember that is another level. Knowing all this, suppose you still get caught up (in maya), then don’t feel bad that you got caught up; even that is part of nature. Don’t say, ‘Oh, I did not apply knowledge!’ or ‘Either someone else is wrong, or I am wrong!’

Whether unpleasant things are happening or pleasant things are happening, I am a witness to it. And my mind is getting caught up in it, even that is a part of the happening; I am witness to that also. This is how you rise above the situation! You have to practice pranayama, meditation and knowledge for a long time. The whole life itself is a practice, and when you practice with honor, then this knowledge becomes well-founded in you.

Litter Later….!

The Litter Bug

The Litter Bug

So today i had an interesting discussion with a friend of mine

She had a quiet concerned tone.

The issue was Littering should be restricted to bins & people should stop littering everywhere.

She explained how inspite of her daily routine of office life, she still found some time to address this point.

As full of concern, she spoke at length with her ladies co-passengers in train, to stop littering,
To stop filthing the environment.
Not even that, she even offered to collect it to manually dispose it off in bins ,
if they ever say there are no bins in compartments!

Questions she says haunts her the most:
How can people be so insensitive towards the environment?
Do they feel nothing about it?
Its the same attitude!?

But I still hold on and continue to educate people time and again, with the time i get.

But i wont be able to do it alone, she says in despair.
More hands are needed to vow AND voice that they will not litter anywhere!

Isnt this the issue, you face too?

Will more systems, more dustbins help?

Will a reform in systems, change an attitude that one has imbibed in his nature?

How can we stop a person from littering?

Educate, they say. IT will work for some, atleast so.

Well then,

A deeper study might say,
People do that with a lack of awareness. With a sense that its not my place.

With a confirmation that somebody will clean it!

What’s the reality?
How many people can a government hire? Which all corners can the people clean.
People always find a new place to dirt around.

Isnt it quite possible to avoid littering and utilizing the available bins well?

Lets look at the flip side.

Many people litter outside.

What about the litter inside? The emotional garbage you dump on people?

Isnt that causing you to be a lot more un-attentive to surroundings?  of collecting the emotional garbage?

When one is so caught in the cycle of me-mine, Its difficult to address a issue that exists outside their world.

Me-Mine is their world, everything else is an alien.

What can bring about a cleaner society in a larger domain?

Its taking care of one’s one mind. The more the peace, the greater your vision to look beyond the Me-Mind glass.

When one has developed that awareness, one’s attention goes to the right place, ethics make sense and integrity looks feasible!

So my dear ones, take care of your own mind, develop that awareness for yourself first & guide your people for such awareness inside.

I personally recommend meditation and Sudarshan Kriya for helping to practise the peace of mind.
The gradual effect is enhanced awareness and an immense change from the Me-Mine Glass to We-Ours attitude!

That can gradually awaken the Earthly Kind & Sensitive person inside you who is ready to take care of his environment!

Change your vision, Educate with Reason!


PS : image courtesy :
PPS : Just for your information i am speaking about system reforms wont work from this Clean Up March Initiative i was a part of!

I personally have gone and cleaned the roads of a lane in Andheri.  and my friends have done the better part.

WE worked closely with the Clean up Mumbai campaign by BMC under the guidance of Dr, Rohit & Dr. Shilpa Sabharwal.

We were also given fine cards and we actually went with marshals to fine people too. But as they say, unless this matter is given the due importance, it doesn’t make a lasting impact on people about systems and reforms!

We need a strong rule to be laid by the One in power! and we will need people to start developing that awareness to make the possible, possible!

Here are a few snapshots of the Drive :  Oh yes, we were featured in a newspaper too as we went fining people around!

In the News - Mumbai Mirror 2008

In the News – Mumbai Mirror 2008

The Young Dynamic Clean Up Warriors.

The Young Dynamic Clean Up Warriors.

and the slogan..

and the slogan..

Thats how we worked too!

Thats how we worked too!

I think that’s more seen and more said!

Lets not Litter and save it for the bins later!

Good News! Mumbai Navratri Utsav this year at Goregaon!

Everyone is invited to The Art of Living – Mumbai Navratri Utsav 2013 at Goregaon.

When is it :
10th – 12th October 2013

Where is it :
Vishnu Park Ground,
Bangur Nagar
Goregaon West.

Here is a invitation poster to spread the information across

Mumbai Navratri Invitation

Mumbai Navratri Invitation


Who all can come :


What will be there this Navratri? What is the schedule of Celebrations? :

There will be Ancient Homas/ Yagyas that will be performed, Chantings, Satsangs and much more.

A) For schedule of Homas check this out  :

Schedule of Mumbai Navratri Homas 2013

Schedule of Mumbai Navratri Homas 2013


B) Also Lalitha Sahasranaam Chantings & Satsang on 10,11,12th October 6:30pm onwards 


Do you want to know more about the Homas? Well. Check this out!

Description of Homas and  Sankalpa Info 2013

Description of Homas and Sankalpa Info 2013


Do you wish to take Sankalpa for any of the above Homas?

Do you wish to contribute? for Anna Daan  / Puja Samagri / Homa Prasadam / Vastra Daan / Lalitha Sahasranama


Then call up these guys, they will help you out : 98921 76219 / 92233 13356 / 77380 56590 / 98193 11550 / 98691 95052.


Oh! you still have questions?

never mind! Call these guys then : 9987091470,9820281050,9892787842


Hey, Did you know there is an official page for all the amazing Poojas, Homas and ancient rituals that continue to happen in Mumbai..

Yes! and its right on Facebook : Check this link out : Facebook : Mumbai – Rudra Puja & Navratri  ( )

Yup, These guys are on twitter too! – Follow them on  : Twitter  : @aolpuja – ( )

Oh ya, email id  :


And dont miss out on their updates : follow the Facebook page for the official updates on the ongoing activities.


Wishing you happy festive times ahead!!

Happy Navratra!

Love & Regards,








Art of Living : MUMBAI NAVRATRI FESTIVAL – October 2012!

Book your dates for the Celebrative and Auspicious Navratri Festival in MUMBAI!
Art of Living Mumbai Invites you all!

16-22nd Oct.
at Sambhaji Park Near Eastern Express Highway,
Mulund East Mumbai..

Advance Course :
16-19th Oct 2012

To Register for Advance Course Contact on
(To apply : Need to have done One Part 1 Course)

Sahaj Samadhi :
17-19th Oct 2012

To Register for Sahaj Samadhi Course contact on
( Open for ALL : Anybody can register)

Homas ::
20th October 2012 :
8:30am   :  Sri Maha Ganapati Homam
12:30pm :  Sri Navgraha Homam

5:00pm   : Vasthu Shanti Homam
6:30pm   : Sri Chandi Devi Kalasa Sthapanam
Chandi Homa Prarambham
9:00pm   : Poornahuthi, Mangalarthi

21st October 2012 :
7:00am   : Rudrabhishekham
Shri Maha Rudra Homam
10:00am : Sri Chandi Homam
12:30pm : Poornahuthi, Mangalarthi

5:00pm   : Shri Maha Sudarshana Homam
6:30pm   : Sri Nava Chandi Homam
9:00pm   : Poornahuthi, Mangalarthi

22nd October 2012 :
7:00am  : Sri Nava Chandi Homam
Sri Chandi Navavarana Puja
Sri Durga Sapthashathi Adhyaya
Homam,Kanyaka Puja, Suvasini Puja
12:30pm : Maha Poornahuthi,Mangalarthi
Kalasha Abhishekham

Prasada Viniyogam


Navratri Schedule!

See how does the Homas help us 🙂
A brief description of the Homas happening in the Navratri festival 🙂
Do Come for ALL!

What Homas Do!


If you wish to help out and do some Seva :
Here is the Volunteer Form :

Have a look at the seva areas and join in 🙂


Happy times ahead!

Love JaiGurudeva! 🙂

Swapnil 🙂

Swami Vaishampayan on how Rudra Puja is Special in Shravan!

Swami Vaishampayanji on taking Sankalpa/ Fulfilling Desires/Why Rudra Puja in Shravan Month:

Swami Vaishampayan ji

Swamiji : Do you want to know the shortest way of fulfilling your desires?
The secret of Fulfilling your desires is leaving them or Offering them and forgetting it.
Puja is the place to offer it.

When u compare ur problems or desire with time & space you will find them small.
Same is done in Puja.
In Puja your consciousness is raised to The Universe and time and you are made aware of the vastness of the Universe.

You are raised to that Level & then you leave desires..
As such then you drop your desire 🙂
As on such offering, you will find yourself not holding it and with time, you will find it fulfilled.

In Sankalpa you offer your desire in the Puja when the specific Mantras are chanted.

The Secret in fulfilling desires is to Offer it & Stop holding desire in mind.

Q : Why Rudra Puja only in Month of Shravan maas

Swamiji : Why do farmers plant seeds in the monsoon?
Because they know that they will not have to put as many efforts for the crop to grow!
Nature will take care of their crops!
In the same way, when you do Rudra Puja in Shraavan Maas, the knowledge will flow on its own.It will happen naturally without you having to put the efforts.
You will absorb the knowledge on your own.
These have been tried and tested by Rishis and Munis in the past and came to the conclusion that the best time for Rudra Pujas is the Month of Shravan!!

Q : Rudra Puja mein sankalpa kyu lena chahiye?
( Why should you take sankalpa in Rudra Puja? )
Swamiji : Sankalpa lena nai.. Sankalpa ko choddna hai!
Only when you drop the wishes, they are taken care of by the divine.
Believe that HE will do only the best for you.

How will desires get fulfilled?
Swamiji : Just drop them!
And believe they are going to come true!! And they will come true!!

Collection of Knowledge Sheets on Love by Sri Sri

Collection of knowledge sheets by Sri Sri Ravishankar on Love.

Sri Sri

Sri Sri

Three kinds of Love

There are three kinds of Love. The Love that comes out of Charm, that which comes out of comfort, and the Divine Love. Do you see what I am saying? The love that comes out of charm does not last long. It comes out of unfamiliarity or out of attraction. In this, you lose the attraction fast, and boredom sets in, like most love marriages. This love may diminish and bring along with it fear, uncertainty, insecurity, and sadness. The Love that comes out of comfort and familiarity grows. But this Love has no thrill, no enthusiasm, joy, or fire to it. For example, you are more comfortable with an old friend who is a familiar person, rather than with a new person. The Divine Love supersedes both the above. The Divine Love has ever newness. The closer you go; there is more charm and depth. The Divine Love has comfort, enthusiasm, and familiarity. There is never boredom and it keeps everyone on their toes. Worldly love can be like an ocean, yet an ocean has a bottom. The Divine Love is like the sky which is limitless, infinite. From the bottom of the Ocean, soar into the vast sky. To know more about Divine Love, refer to our Bhakti Sutras.

What are the signs of love

When you love someone you dont see anything wrong in them. Even if you see some fault in them you justify the fault and say Well everyone does it, it is normal. You think you have not done enough for them. The more you do, the more you want to do for them. They are always in your mind. Ordinary things become extraordinary. For eg. A baby winking at grandmother. You want them to be yours exclusively. When you love someone, you want to see them always happy and you want them to have the best . You get hurt even over small things. 33% extra knowledge !!! (Laughter)

Sri Sri: You wish someone of what they dont have ? Right ?

Answer: Yes !

Sri Sri: When you say Best Wishes, you imply that they are not best NOW I tell you, NOW is the best. If you realise this tomorrow can only be better.

Your expressions of love

You feel a lot of love for someone and they do not take it. What do you do?

  • Get frustrated
  • Turn the love into hatred and wish for revenge
  • Again and again remind them how much you love them and how little they love you
  • Become fussy and cranky
  • Throw tantrums
  • Feel humiliated and try to protect your respect
  • Resolve never to love again
  • Feel hurt and mistreated
  • Try to be aloof and indifferent

…and you have seen that none of these work. They only make the situation worse.

What is the way out of this? How do you maintain your lovingness?

  • Have patience and change your expression of love.
  • Be centered and limit your expression of love. Sometimes over-expression of love puts people off.
  • Take it for granted that they love you too and accept their style of expression. For example, a mother with three kids. One child talks, one child does not talk, one child throws tantrums. Mother’s love is the same irrespective of their behavior.
  • Genuinely acknowledge their love for you. This will turn your demand into gratefulness and the more you are grateful in life, the more love comes your way.
  • Know that hurt is part of love and take responsibility for it. When you move away from your center, you will definitely get hurt and the nature of worldliness is misery.

Love Is The Shadow Of The Self

When you love something, you have a sense of belongingness with it. You can only love something, because it is belongs to you. If it is not yours, you cannot love it. Love is the shadow of the Self. The bigger the Self, the bigger the shadow, and the bigger the love. When the love is cast over the entire creation, then you are the Big Self. That is the Lordship. When the Lordship dawns on the Self, there is perennial celebration.

Love is your very existence

Suppose someone shows a lot of love to you, what do you do?

  • Often you do not know how to respond.
  • You feel obliged and bound.
  • Shrink or shy away.
  • Feel foolish and awkward.
  • Try to reciprocate even though it is not genuine.
  • Doubt the love expressed and ones own worthiness.
  • You are afraid of losing respect because love does not allow distance and respect tends to keep distance.
  • Your ego hardens and does not allow you to receive and reciprocate.
  • Anything else. (Fill in the blanks).

The ability to receive genuine love comes with the ability to give love. The more you are centered and, by experience, know that you are love, the more you feel at home with any amount of love being expressed in any manner, for deep inside, you know :

Love is not an emotion !! It is your very Existence !!!

Abiding in the self

Abiding in the self you become the valentine for the whole world. Spirit is the valentine of matter and matter is the valentine of the spirit. They are made for each other. They uphold each other. If you hold onto matter and do not respect the spirit, then matter is not pleased. If you honor the spirit then you will care for the world, and when you care for the world, it will take care of you.

I am the valentine of the whole world and I reside in every heart. If you are my valentine, you will see me everywhere. Have the same love for everyone, with different flavors. You cannot behave the same way with everyone, but you can love all of them the same. Love transcends behavior and etiquette.

With Whom Are You At Ease?

With whom do you feel really comfortable and at ease?

You feel comfortable with someone who does not question your love, someone who takes for granted that you love them. Isn’t it?

If someone doubts your love and you constantly have to prove it, this becomes a heavy load on your head. When someone doubts your love, they start questioning you and demanding explanations for all your actions. To explain everything you do is a burden. Your nature is to shed the burden, and so you don’t feel comfortable.

When you question the reason behind an action, you are asking for justice for yourself. You are creating a distance when you ask for justice. Your whole intention is to come close, but you are creating a distance.

You are a witness to all your actions. You are as much a stranger to your own actions as you are to someone else’s. You are the Eternal Witness. When someone asks for an explanation, they are speaking from doership and imposing that doership on you. This brings discomfort.

If somebody is just there with you, like a part of you, they don’t question you. They are like your arm. There is thorough understanding and questions don’t arise. Neither demand an explanation nor give an explanation.

Authority and love

Mistakes keep happening all the time. Often you get irritated by them and want to correct them. How much can you correct? There are two situations when you correct others’ mistakes: 1. You correct someone’s mistake because it bothers you. But even if you correct it, this does not work. 2. You correct someone’s mistake, not because it bothers you, but for their sake so that they can grow. To correct mistakes you need authority and love. Authority and love seem to be contradictory, but in reality they are not. Authority without love is stifling and does not work. Love without authority is shallow. A friend needs to have both authority and love but they need to be in the right combination. This can happen if you are totally dispassionate and centred. When you allow room for mistakes, you can be both authoritative and sweet. That is how the Divine is, the right balance of both. Krishna and Jesus had both. People, when they are in love, exercise authority with each other. Authority and love exist in all relationships. Abhay says, “The husband just loves and the wife has authority.” Mikey asks, “Is that a mistake?” Guruji says, “I don’t want to correct it!” (laughter)

Change and Love

There are some who are longing for change. Feeling that everything is stagnant in their lives, they want to change partners, careers, dwellings. And there are some who are scared of change. They feel secure the way they are. There are some who see the change, but don’t acknowledge it out of fear. There are some who do not notice the change at all. There are some who do not think there is anything to change. And there are some who realize that everything is changing, yet see there is something that is non-changing. Those who recognize the non-changing amidst the change are the wisest of all.

Question: Must love as well always change?

Sri Sri: Love is your nature. What is your nature cannot change. But the expression of love changes. Because love is your nature, you cannot but love. The mother has total love for the child, but sometimes she feeds the child, sometimes she is strict with the child. “Come on, sit and write!”
Sometimes she slaps the child. She does this out of love, and these are all different modes of love. So, the expression of love changes but love itself does not change, because love is your nature.

Love and Renunciation

Only one who has renounced can truly love. To the degree you have renounced, to that degree you have the ability to love. Often people think those who renounce cannot love, and those who love cannot renounce. This is because so-called renunciants do not seem to be in love, and so-called lovers are very possessive and are in need. True love is non-possessive and brings freedom, and renunciation is nothing but freedom. Only in freedom can love fully blossom. When in love you say, “I want nothing, I just want this.” Renunciation is, ” I don’t want anything. I am free.” In love there is no other need. Renunciation is having no need. Love and renunciation, although appearing to be opposites, are two sides of the same coin.

McQueen said — They are the same side of the same coin. (laughter)

Tara asked — Does this mean the lover renounces his beloved?

Guruji responded — You renounce the attachment, the possessiveness. Renunciation doesn’t diminish love; it enhances it.

Only renunciation can sustain love and joy. Without renunciation love turns into misery, possessiveness, jealousy and anger. Renunciation brings contentment and contentment sustains love. Without renunciation one gets discontented, frustrated, sad, fearful, suspicious, analytical. And the whole soap opera begins. And this is what we find in society , don’t we?

The so-called renunciants have run away from life frustrated and disappointed. Real renunciation is born out of knowledge and wisdom, knowledge of life in the background of time and space and in the context of this magnanimous universe.

The five insights

Love is your nature. But in the process of its expression, you often get caught up in the object. This is when your sight is caught outside. To return back to your nature, you need insight. Pain is the first insight. It takes you away from the object and turns you towards your body and mind. Energy is the second insight. A bolt of energy brings you back to your Self. Divine Love is the third insight. A glimpse of Divine love makes you so complete and over rules all the relative pleasures. Trance is the fourth insight. An elevation of consciousness and partial awareness of the physical reality around is Trance. The conviction in the non-dual existence, that all is made up of one and only one, is the fifth insight. When love glows, it is bliss, When it flows, it is compassion, When it blows, it is anger, When it ferments, it is jealously, When it is all Nos, it is hatred, When it acts, it is perfection, When love Knows, it is ME!

The personal and impersonal

How can we reconcile the impersonal with the personal?

In love you raise the object to life. When you love an object it becomes life. For children everything is personal. Children take each object they play with and make it totally personal. Even a stone has a face; even the sun laughs. When you attach emotion, the whole creation becomes personal. When you remove the emotion, even people become objects. Violence is removing the emotion. How a person can kill another person: it is when they do not see them as a person, they see them as an object. But even a stone attracts reverence when it becomes personal.

Dean says: In military training they teach soldiers to see people as killing objects coming toward you that need to be killed first.

Susannah says: In the temple even a stone is elevated to the level of spirit.

The impersonal cannot attract reverence. Most people see God as impersonal and therefore they do not progress.

Dean and Susannah say: “That’s why we need a Guru!”

Chan says: When we say something isn’t real, then it’s impersonal. When we personalize

something, we make it real. So then, what is reality?

You are the Reality. You are not the thoughts, you are not the emotions nor actions. You are not even a person…!

Exercise: What you now see as impersonal, see it as personal. And when you feel any negative emotion towards anybody, see them as impersonal. And pretend that you yourself are a robot.

Love! The Question Of An Answer

In a congregation, Sri Sri asked, ” How many of you are feeling strong?” Many people raised their hands.

Sri Sri : “Why?”

Because YOU are with us!!!

Sri Sri : “Only those who feel weak can surrender”.

All those who were feeling strong were taken aback!

If you are in love, you feel weak because love makes you weak. Yet there is no power stronger than love. Love is strength. (All those who had raised their hands for strong suddenly felt weak!). Yet love is the greatest power on earth. You feel absolutely powerful when you are with the Divine.

Someone asked: “But why do we keep alternating between the two?”

Sri Sri: “That is the fluctuation in life.”

Love and Truth

Why would someone tell a lie to their close ones or to their beloved?

This is a question most often asked by lovers. Since love cannot stand untruth, this causes relationships to break up. The solution lies in understanding the paradox of love and truth. People tell lies just to save and maintain their love. The fear that the truth might damage their love causes lies to be told between husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, parents and children and in family situations.

In love you feel weak and truth brings strength. Yet why do people prefer love over truth, i.e. weakness over strength?! (laughter)

No one wants to sacrifice love. Thus people are ready to give up the truth for their love. Love takes the luster out of truth. Sometimes truth can make love bitter while in love even lies can appear sweet, like Krishna’s lies to his mother Yashoda! The truth that does not nourish love has no sense and the love that cannot withstand the truth is not true love. When one is assured that the love is so strong that the truth can neither break it nor cause bitterness, then the truth prevails and love shines. Truth has judgments, but true love is beyond judgments. Thus true love makes you weak and yet it is the greatest strength.

Respect and Ego

There are two types of respect.

  1. Respect that comes to you because of your position, fame or wealth. This type of respect is impermanent. It can be lost once you lose your wealth or status.
  2. Respect that comes because of your virtues like honesty, kindness, commitment, patience and your smile. This respect, no one can take away.

The less you are attached to your virtues, the more self respect you have. If you get attached to your virtues, you look down upon everybody else, and the virtues start diminishing. Non- attachment to virtues brings the highest self respect.

Often one confuses ego with self esteem. Ego needs the other for comparison; self esteem is just confidence in oneself. For example, a gentleman claims that he is thorough in Mathematics or Geography, this is self esteem. But to say that I know better than you, that is Ego.

Ego simply means lack of respect to the Self.

Ego upsets you very often. Self esteem is immune to getting upset by external factors. In self respect, everything is a game, winning or losing has no meaning, every step is joy, and every move is celebration.


Do you love someone, because they are great or unique?I tell you – you are hopeless!

Why do you love someone? Is it because of their qualities or is it because of a sense of kinship or intimacy?

You can love someone for their qualities and not feel a sense of kinship. This type of love gives rise to competition and jealousy. Such is not the case when love arises out of kinship.

If you love someone for their qualities, then when the quality changes or you get used to the quality, love also changes. However, if you love someone out of kinship, because they belong to you, then that love remains for life-times.

People say “I love God, because He is great”. This is no big thing. If God is found to be ordinary, just one of us, then your love for God collapses! If you love God, because He is yours, then however God is, whether He creates or destroys, you still love Him. The love for kinship is like the love for yourself.

Question: Many people do not have love for themselves?

Answer: No! It is the other way around. They love themselves so much, that they want better qualities and better appearance for themselves. This love of qualities makes them be hard on one self.

If love is based on the quality of a person, then the love is not stable – after sometime the qualities change and the love becomes shaky. Loving someone because of their greatness or uniqueness is Third-rate love. Loving someone because they belong to you, great or otherwise, is unconditional love.

Knowledge, Sadhana, Seva and Satsang help to bring about a sense of belonging in no time. When love springs forth from a sense of belongingness then the actions and qualities do not over shadow the love. Neither the qualities nor actions can be perfect all the time. Love and a feeling of kinship alone can be perfect.

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