Somebody asked : “Girls r a distraction in spiritual and education path How to avoid them? ”
Guruji answered : “Just postpone whatever u postpone is anyways so charming! ”
Contemplated for a while to get what did it mean??
This is what the mind said 😉
In life there are things that provide joy such as girls(atleast till the time u kno them very well 😉 ) , friends , materialistic things-phone,laptop,etc.. some of comfort-such as trips,night-outs,movies,etc..
Guruji says these things are a distraction most of the times in terms of spiritual and education path!!
Distraction happens when we just want that joy from those things! 🙂 and what happens when we move to get that joy we at times miss out on the present moment- things we are supposed to do and so what happens next is pure distraction! 🙂
We are off the path! 😀 You see when we are distracted;sadhana at times no longer seems interesting because something more interesting the mind illusions and so it runs after getting the joy from that!!
Thus which gave pure joy or fun at one time became an impediment at the later time!
Therefore Guruji says With awareness if we postpone those things that provide us joy atleast for some moments! then we value it more we find more charm in those!!
Isn’t it that after months of hard work a trip which you postponed because of work was more charming!! 😀
Same way, mind knows at times what is in limit and what is going beyond your limits!!
So with awareness postpone so that you can find more charm in that 🙂
How do you postpone but maybe another question?
When we know that its time to pay attention to the things required at present!
and its difficult to do that!
Then developing an interest in the thing,may help you to postpone the things!!
An develop an interest you just need to do something random to get your mind back 🙂
When your mind comes in awareness and senses 😉
Then it automatically understands whats best for the moment and finds interest in the action at present! 🙂
Till the time you finish your current action,you are rich in knowledge and now you see find more joy in things!!
So this time when your work is done you find the joy out these things as more and more charming!
So with awareness postpone things by involving yourself in something that brings back your interest in the present- when you know you are more required in the present!!
And then as time passes and your works done! at those times you see enjoy the things! also 100% because this time you are not bound by anywork!! 😉